Dementia can take away words, confidence, and connection; but music often finds a way back in.
Re-Mind Music was born from seeing that happen first-hand: a familiar song bringing someone back into the room, a chorus unlocking a memory, a rhythm lifting a mood, a dance step reminding someone who they still are.
These sessions are designed for people living with dementia, using music not as background noise, but as a way to spark joy, movement, laughter, calm, and connection. Through singing, dancing, gentle exercise, instruments, and familiar songs, Re-Mind Music creates moments where residents are not simply cared for; they are involved, celebrated, and seen.
Re-Mind Music brings people back to themselves: one song at a time!
Session Information
Who It's For
Why Music Works
Who It's For
For people living with dementia, whether in care homes, community groups, or supported settings. Sessions are gentle, inclusive, and shaped around the people in the room.
What Happens
Why Music Works
Who It's For
Singing, movement, rhythm, dancing, gentle exercise, instruments, and familiar songs — all brought together in a warm, uplifting session. No pressure, no performance, just meaningful participation.
Why Music Works
Why Music Works
Why Music Works
Music is part of who we are. It holds our memories, lifts our mood, moves our bodies, and connects us to others. For someone living with dementia, a familiar song can do something extraordinary; it can bring calm, joy, recognition, and a powerful sense of self.
For Care Homes
Therapeutic, Not Clinical
Why Music Works
Re-Mind Music fits naturally into activity programmes, wellbeing schedules, and special events. It gives residents, staff, and carers a shared experience that feels positive, personal, and alive.
Times & Bookings
Therapeutic, Not Clinical
Therapeutic, Not Clinical
Sessions run Monday to Friday at 11am, 1pm, and 3pm. Each visit lasts 45 minutes, with one-off and regular bookings available across Buckinghamshire, Hertfordshire, Oxfordshire, and Berkshire.
Re-Mind Music is not a clinical music therapy service. It offers therapeutic music-based sessions focused on wellbeing, reminiscence, relaxation, movement, and connection.
Shared Musical Moments
Experience & Approach
Musical Experience:
Music has always been a central part of my life. I play piano and studied Music at the University of Oxford, where my dissertation focused on music therapy for Alzheimer’s disease. This gave me the opportunity to explore, in depth, how music can support memory, communication, emotion, and identity for people living with dementia.
Alongside my academic background, I have also completed specialist training in 'Music in Dementia Care', helping me shape sessions that are thoughtful, person-centred, and sensitive to the needs of those taking part.
Experience in Dementia Care:
My work is also shaped by hands-on experience in community and care settings. I volunteer at the Wendover dementia café, support Care to Dance (Dacorum Community Dance) sessions, and help with Chance to Dance sessions for adults with learning disabilities.
These experiences have taught me the importance of patience, dignity, flexibility, and trust. Every person responds differently, and I believe the best sessions are those that meet people exactly where they are on the day.
- Toby Burton, Founder
Why This Matters
Winifred
Winifred
Winifred
One of my clearest memories of Winifred (Granny Win) is watching her dance around the kitchen to Jailhouse Rock by Elvis Presley.
She would know every single word. The moment the music started, something changed: she was not just an older lady living with Alzheimer’s, she was young again, full of energy, rhythm, mischief, and life. She wou
One of my clearest memories of Winifred (Granny Win) is watching her dance around the kitchen to Jailhouse Rock by Elvis Presley.
She would know every single word. The moment the music started, something changed: she was not just an older lady living with Alzheimer’s, she was young again, full of energy, rhythm, mischief, and life. She would sing along proudly, moving around the kitchen as though nobody was watching, although we very much were.
The funny part is that she would often be ironing at the same time which, looking back, probably was not the ideal activity for a 90-year-old with Alzheimer’s. But that was Granny Win. Fiercely independent, determined to keep doing things her way, and somehow completely herself when the right song was playing.
In those moments, the music seemed to bring everything together. She had a task in front of her, Elvis in the background, and a spark in her that made her seem well, present, and connected. It reminded me that music does not just entertain; it can reach memory, identity, confidence, and joy in a way that words sometimes cannot.
Wanda
Winifred
Winifred
A potent memory I have of Wanda (Granny Wanda) is of one Christmas meal, when she suddenly began singing in Polish.
She was of Polish descent, and although vascular dementia had affected her thinking and communication, the music seemed to open a door that everyday conversation sometimes could not. One moment she was with us in the room, an
A potent memory I have of Wanda (Granny Wanda) is of one Christmas meal, when she suddenly began singing in Polish.
She was of Polish descent, and although vascular dementia had affected her thinking and communication, the music seemed to open a door that everyday conversation sometimes could not. One moment she was with us in the room, and the next she was somewhere much further back: singing songs from her youth, the same songs she used to sing in a choir with her sisters.
What amazed me most was how easily she moved between English and Polish. She would switch between the two as though no time had passed, carried by the melody and the memories attached to it. It was beautiful, surprising, and slightly magical. It was one of those family moments where everyone goes quiet because they know they are witnessing something special.
There was humour in it too, because she sang with such confidence, as if Christmas had simply become her stage and the rest of us were lucky enough to be in the audience.
That moment showed me how deeply music can be tied to identity. Even when dementia affects thinking, speech, or memory, a familiar song can still reach something personal and powerful. For Granny Wanda, music brought back language, family, heritage, and a part of herself that was still very much there.
Kind Words
Louise White
Louise White
Louise White
(Founder, Dacorum Community Dance)
Working alongside Toby has been an absolute joy. He brings a combination of warmth, genuine compassion, and boundless enthusiasm to our Care to Dance project.
Toby has a natural gift for connecting with people living with dementia, using music and dance not just as an activity, but as a bridge for communication and emotional expression.
What stands out is his willingness to learn and gain experience. Toby listens closely to individual needs, adapts to changing moods or group dynamics, and constantly seeks new ways to improve his practice.
His passion for people centred care shines through in every interaction, making him an invaluable and uplifting presence.
(Trustee of Wendover Dementia Support and Head of Music)
Toby has been volunteering at the Wendover Dementia café for the last 8 months. He is a very talented keyboard player, skilled in improvising and with a natural ability to connect with people of all ages with enthusiasm, patience and empathy.
Music brings back memories, encourages people to sing along and, most importantly, creates moments of happiness and connection. It’s lovely to see participants become more engaged and animated during the sessions.
Toby is reliable, respectful and genuinely caring, and his passion for music shines through in every session. We are very grateful for the positive difference he makes to our dementia café and the people who attend.
I have no hesitation in recommending him to take music sessions in local care homes.